Urethral stimulation enjoyment comes from the ability to massage the area, which can send intense and pleasurable sensations throughout your body. It is for this very reason that urethral sounding is a part of the arousal build up and the sexual activity, as opposed to engaging in urethral stimulation after arousal.
If you find that the sensation is too intense after an orgasm, then you need to masturbate until you are close to orgasm and be on the brink or orgasm, but not quite there. You might want to use your fingers and hands, or you might want to be using a sexual aide until you get highly aroused. Once you have reached a state of high arousal, might be wise to grab a mirror, and then place a lubed urethral sound next to the opening. It doesn’t matter as if you’re an overweight woman, a petite woman, or a woman with no flexibility, the sexual position remains the same unless you have mobility issues.
Using your mirror, gently guide it into place and make a gentle push, do not force it and ensure that you are not using any force. A toy of this type might not just slide in of its own accord, but gentle pushing is a good place to start. During this period you can continue masturbation and providing stimulation to ensure that the area is relaxed and aroused. Do not orgasm, but keep it close.
It is important to note that this is a very new sensation, and your brain might struggle trying to piece the information together. It might feel not very pleasurable, it might feel pleasurable or it might be something in between. Arousal, and a heightened state of arousal will make any discomfort easier to process, and this can be the easiest way to learn to become accustomed to new toys and a new sensation. Try to post pone your orgasm for as long as possible, as the delay will give you more time to experiment with your urethral sound.
When you’re ready, bring yourself to climax. Try this with the tip of the urethral toy in your urethra, as this will be a demonstration of pleasures and activities to come. It might not feel pleasurable, it might not feel painful, and your body will need time to adjust to the new sensation and the pleasures. Just go slowly and take one step at a time.